What Qualities Pakistani Girl Should Have For (Wedding) Rishta?

What general qualities a girl should have in 2016 for getting a good Rishta in Pakistan? I mean what to expect from a groom’s family.
Keep it to middle class only.

Should be well mannered. Should have at least graduated. Should have sizable knowledge about Islam. And be confident of herself.!!

Those who are good or bad in your perspective, is your version of their outlook only. Each of the family is good in their own right. Many are what you might call opportunists who according to them don’t have anything to complain about. If there is some proposal which seems to you a fit then you have to maneuver yourself to get adjusted so as to pass through their acceptance filter, either you want it or not if you like not to lose the chance to be a part of their family. There is no generality as the mindset is not general and there’s a great deal of variation. Look for what a particular family wants whichever you come across.

The only thing which damages a marriage is expectations!!! The lower the expectations the higher is the rate of success of marriage.. from both sides!!!

And for those boys saying a girl should be herself, kindly sit down with your mother and ask her. And for girls saying one must be conformable in her own skin, please don’t fool other people on social platform. It never goes like one of your favorite drama in real life

She should be good looking and knows how to cook! That is it! Nobody gives a shit about her education about her goals about her dreams! At the end of the day its all about food and having kids!

You need to be comfortable in your own skin. Are you satisfied and happy with who you are and what you have achieved? If yes, then do not let anyone in the world tell you that you should change. If not, then what are your goals and dreams? What are you doing to work towards it?
Also remember that a marriage is a bond between two equal people. Do not ask for more than what you can offer in return, and do you not settle for less than what you can give.

Who gives a shit what a grooms family wants. If you can’t be yourself then whats the point of getting married in such a family.

Do not marry someone until and unless you’re sure that you want to marry them. Take your time and know them enough. If for some reason you went into a marriage and it isn’t working out well, talk to your partner. Communication is the key. Share your concerns.