What if i fail? Tends to be the cry of many who choose not to make an effort. Or to quote Homer Simpson, ”But Marge, trying the first step towards failure.” Many of us possess a bastion reservoir of doubt in our subconscious that has been residing there since infancy. Over the years, these thought have been reinforced by elders around us as well as by self-fulfilling prophecies that by our own attempts were doomed to failure the start . One of the consistent objection i hear when my possibility is proffered is ‘but’. And that my friends, is personal sabotage.<\/p>